28 Best Sex Toys for Couples to Spice Things Up, According to Real Testers & Sex Therapists

This beloved suction toy sends waves of pleasure through your clit, mimicking the sensation of oral sex with knee-weakening accuracy. If you have trouble orgasming from internal stimulation alone, it’s guaranteed to take your next bedroom romp to an 11. (Trust us: We tried it and called it “almost too good” in our Satisfyer Pro 2 review.) We recommend you or your partner hold it over your clitoris during oral sex or penetration; combined with G-spot stimulation, it’ll feel heavenly. “I have tried a lot of sex toys, alone and with a partner, and they all help on some level, but the Satisfyer is in a league of its own,” one Glamour tester raves. “I am not exaggerating when I say my body did things I did not know it could do with this toy. Like, I always thought squirting was just a thing I would see in porn, but it turns out my body can do that!”

Type: TK | Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic | Modes: 11 vibration settings | Battery:  2-hour rechargeable battery | Run time: 2.5 hours | Waterproof: Yes. | App-compatibility: No. | How to charge: Via USB cable

• Why we love it: Quiet design, pinpointed stimulation, tons of intensity levels
• What's worth considering: Focuses only on the clit; short battery life
• How to use it: TK

Leave it to Lelo to design the best waterproof vibrator for couples. Whether you use it in the same room or half a world apart, the Ida Wave is perfect for anyone with a vulva. According to Weiss’s Ida Wave review, the orgasms are plentiful and then some: “They kept on coming. Each orgasm was progressively more intense and felt like it was coming from a slightly different place. And after each one I’d think I was done for good, and then suddenly I’d feel the vibration in a slightly different place and get extremely turned on all over again… Within around a half hour, I’d reached my previous record of eight orgasms… but I still had another half hour until dinner… As it turned out, there were seven more in me.” There really isn’t more to say on the matter, is there?

Type: TK | Material: Body-safe silicone | Modes: 10 vibration settings | Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery | Run time: 2-hours | Waterproof: Yes | App-compatibility: Yes | How to charge: Via DC port

• Why we love it: Dual stimulation; orgasm-inducing
• What's worth considering: A bit bulky
• How to use it: TK

Used alone or with a partner, this hands-free vibrator fits in the vulva and rests between the labia. It comes highly recommended by Gottfried: “It stimulates the clitoris and allows for penetration simultaneously, and even has a discreet charging case.” (Pro tip: Use crotchless panties to keep it in place with zero effort.) “It’s a very unobtrusive toy that tucks between your labia and sits on your clitoris,” explains sex educator and Glamour sex writer Suzannah Weiss, who often uses it during partnered sex. “It’s surprisingly powerful for its small size and also works great for solo masturbation. It does occasionally move around, so it may require you to use your hands a bit.”

Type: TK | Material: Body-safe silicone | Modes: 3 vibration settings | Battery: 4-hour rechargeable battery | Run time: 1-hour | Waterproof: Yes | App-compatibility: No | How to charge: Via USB cable

• Why we love it: Waterproof build, wearable design; great for couples
• What's worth considering: Limited vibration options; can be tough to keep in place
• How to use it: TK

If it’s your first time experimenting with a toy during partnered play, start here. “The classic Magic Wand is not only my own favorite vibrator, [but] it has also been the best-selling vibrator for over 50 years,” says Nan Wise, PhD, a certified sex therapist and author of the book Why Good Sex Matters. This bestseller actually gets the job done, adding pleasure with a bendable neck and an extra-soft head that’s great for sharing with a partner, whether it’s focused on sore muscles or any erogenous zone you please. (Add full-body massage to your running list of foreplay ideas.) Just a word of warning: This thing is loud.

Type: TK | Material: Body-safe silicone | Modes: 8 vibration settings | Battery: 3-hour rechargeable battery | Run time: 3-hours | Waterproof: No | App-compatibility: No | How to charge: Via HV-270 charger cable

• Why we love it: Extra powerful vibrations; flexible neck; rechargeable battery
• What's worth considering: Loud; relatively heavy at 1.5 lb.; not waterproof
• How to use it: TK

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“The Lush 3 is a powerful wearable vibrator made from body-safe silicone that’s meant to be worn vaginally for rumbly internal vibrations; the largest bulb slips inside the vagina, while the curved flexible tail wraps toward the clit for a more comfortable and secure fit,” says Dainis Graveris, certified sex educator and relationship expert at SexualAlpha. “Despite the powerful vibrating motor, it’s discreet enough that you can wear it while you’re out in public and give your short-range or long-distance partner control over your pleasure.” Any partner can use an app to control the vibration, whether they’re in the same room or countless miles away. It’s also fun out in the world, Weiss says: “If you’re feeling adventurous, you can wear it out and about and enjoy the quiet and unpredictable vibrations in public settings.”

Type: TK | Material: Body-safe silicone | Modes: Customizable vibration settings | Battery: 85 minute rechargeable battery | Run time: 3-hours | Waterproof: Yes| App-compatibility: Yes | How to charge: Via USB

• Why we love it: App-controlled; wearable design; tons of vibration modes
• What's worth considering: Might break down quickly
• How to use it: TK

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To kick your anal play up a notch, try this dual-ended vibrator. It’s a prostate massager, meaning it’ll hit what’s basically the male version of the G-spot (some can even climax from prostate stimulation alone). It’s also waterproof, remote-controlled, and rechargeable, and it has six vibration patterns and up to two hours of juice. “It’s a great addition to your bedroom arsenal, no matter your sexuality,” a Glamour toy tester says. “It’s soft to the touch and just the right size and shape for people of any experience level. It might look big, but it’s designed to be the perfect size to tease the prostate.” We recommend using it to warm up for anal sex or using it on its own to make oral sex or mutual masturbation more pleasurable.

Type: TK | Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic | Modes: 6 vibration settings | Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery | Run time: 2-hours | Waterproof: Yes| App-compatibility: Yes | How to charge: Via DC port

• Why we love it: Remote control; two motors; great battery; waterproof
• What's worth considering: Expensive
• How to use it: TK

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When it comes to couples sex toys, you can never go wrong with a panty vibrator. “Panty vibrators are an easy way to spice up date night at home or out on the town,” says Chatel. “Just slip the vibrator into your undies and hand the remote control or app over to your partner, and let the games begin. Moxie, in particular, is my favorite in this style because the fit is perfect, whereas other toys can be bulky and feel like you have a load in your pants.” With its 10 rumbly vibrations that are whisper-quiet and the super easy-to-use We-Vibe app, Moxie is a great addition to every sex toy collection.

Type: TK | Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic | Modes: 10 vibration settings | Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery | Run time: 2-hours | Waterproof: Yes| App-compatibility: Yes | How to charge: Via USB cord

• Why we love it: Magnet attachment for extra security; 2-year warranty
• What's worth considering: Could be stronger
• How to use it: TK

This vibrating male masturbator “makes a great addition to penetrative play, blow jobs, and hand jobs,” explains Cassandra Corrado, a sex educator who hosts sexuality-focused retreats. Its magic lies in those two textured wings, which act like a vibrating hand or throat; they expand to accommodate nearly any penis size, so you or your partner probably won’t be left out of the fun.

Type: TK | Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic | Modes: 12 vibration settings | Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery | Run time: 2-hours | Waterproof: Yes| App-compatibility: No | How to charge: Via USB cord

• Why we love it: Magnet attachment for extra security; 2-year warranty
• What's worth considering: Could be stronger
• How to use it: TK

Yes, rabbit vibrators are a bit bulky if you and your partner plan on having penetrative sex. But if you’re not going to be on top of each other—say, if you’re enjoying long-distance Zoom sex, or mutual masturbation turns you on—this ridged pick should be right up your alley. “Nora is for those who love rabbit vibes, intense clit stimulation, and G-spot stimulation,” Moore says. Like all Bluetooth-enabled Lovense devices, it can be controlled by anyone in the world via an app and pairs with the brand’s other toys. Moore explains that while the length is great for beginners, the rotating head might be too thick for first-timers or those who prefer less girth.

Type: TK | Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic | Modes: 7 vibration settings | Battery: 3-hour rechargeable battery | Run time: 4-hours | Waterproof: Yes| App-compatibility: Yes | How to charge: Via USB cord

• Why we love it: App connectivity; great battery life; partners with other Lovense toys
• What's worth considering: Might be too bulky for partnered sex
• How to use it: TK

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What do you get when you put two or more vulvas in the same room? Magic. And the best way to celebrate such a coming together of greatness is by stimulating not just the vulva, but every inch of both partners. “Fin is more than just a perfect finger vibrator, so it’s great for lesbians and all their erogenous zones,” says Chatel. “Whether it’s the clit, nipples, earlobes, or that super sensitive part of the lower back, this vibrator won’t quit until everyone has climaxed multiple times.”

Type: TK | Material: Body-safe silicone | Modes: 3 vibration settings | Battery: 1.5-hour rechargeable battery | Run time: 1.5-hours | Waterproof: Yes| App-compatibility: No | How to charge: Via USB cord and

• Why we love it: Extra powerful vibrations; versatile
• What's worth considering: Charge might not last a full session
• How to use it: TK

This ergonomic pick from Lelo “doesn’t take up much room during sex,” says Aliyah Moore, PhD, a certified sex therapist with SexualAlpha, who appreciates the gadget’s “comfortable curve and handle” that make it easy to use on the clitoris and vulva. “I highly recommend it for clit play during partnered sex. There’s also a wide range of power settings, from soft to very strong.” Use it as an external vibe during oral sex or penetration, then slip in the curved tip for targeted G-spot stimulation if you need help reaching the big O.

Type: TK | Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic | Modes: 6 vibration settings | Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery | Run time: 2-hours | Waterproof: Yes| App-compatibility: No | How to charge: Via USB cord

• Why we love it: Waterproof design; unobtrusive shape; for internal or external use
• What's worth considering: Buttons are easy to accidentally push during sex
• How to use it: TK

This super-bendy vibrator is a great complement to partnered play because it can be used both internally and externally on everybody and every body. “As much as I like the Bender when I’m solo, I love it even more with my partner,” says Chatel. “It’s not just really powerful, but super flexible, making getting creative during sex extra fun because there’s no body part that this toy can’t stimulate and no place it can’t be used.” Bender reaches full charge in only an hour and is 100% waterproof and shockingly quiet.

Type: TK | Material: Body-safe silicone | Modes: 10 vibration settings | Battery: 1-hour rechargeable battery | Run time: 2-hours | Waterproof: Yes| App-compatibility: No | How to charge: Via USB cord

• Why we love it: Super flexible; inclusive of all bodies
• What's worth considering: Pricey; poor battery life
• How to use it: TK

Mallery calls herself “a big advocate of butt plugs” for couples, no matter if you have a prostate or a vulva. (The internal pressure “makes the vagina feel more cozy,” she says, and it’s especially fun if vibrations are involved.) This pick comes highly recommended by Corrado. “They come in a variety of sizes and are beginner-friendly for the booty-curious folks who want to start using toys,” she says, with the smallest size starting at about the size of an index finger. When you start working your way up, you’ll have an additional six sizes to choose from.

Type: Anus, prostate | Material: Body-safe silicone | Modes: N/A | Battery: N/A | Run time: N/A | Waterproof: Yes| App-compatibility: N/A | How to charge: N/A

• Why we love it: Multiple sizes to choose from; weighted for extra sensation
• What's worth considering: Pricey
• How to use it: TK

Cock rings are a fantastic addition to partnered play. But the only downside is that some can be really pricey—this is particularly an issue for people who have yet to experience the joy of cock rings and don’t want to spend a lot. “This vibrating cock ring doesn’t have the price tag that some others have, but it’s just as delicious,” says Amanda Chatel, a sex writer and Glamour tester. “It also has the iconic rabbit ears for more direct clitoral stimulation.” Although some might find the need to keep a supply of AAA batteries a hassle, considering how great this cock ring feels, it’s a small price—literally and figuratively!—to pay.

Type: TK | Material: Body-safe silicone | Modes: 7 vibration settings | Battery: 1 x AAA battery | Run time: 60 minutes | Waterproof: No | App-compatibility: No | How to charge: N/A

• Why we love it: Stretchy; stimulates both partners.
• What's worth considering: Requires batteries
• How to use it: TK

Type: TK | Material: Body-safe PC ABS | Modes: 8 vibration settings | Battery:  1.5-hour rechargeable battery | Run time: 1.5 hours | Waterproof: Yes | App-compatibility: No | How to charge: Via USB cord

• Why we love it: TK
• What's worth considering: TK
• How to use it: TK

Type: G-spot vibrator | Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic | Modes: 8 vibration settings | Battery:  2-hour rechargeable battery | Run time: Up to 4 hours | Waterproof: Yes | App-compatibility: No | How to charge: Via USB cord

• Why we love it: TK
• What's worth considering: TK
• How to use it: TK

Type: Clitoral stimulator | Material: Body-safe silicone | Modes: 14 vibration settings | Battery:  8-hour rechargeable battery | Run time: 4-hours | Waterproof: Yes | App-compatibility: No | How to charge: Via USB cord

• Why we love it: TK
• What's worth considering: TK
• How to use it: TK

Type: G-spot | Material: Body-safe silicone | Modes: N/A | Battery:  N/A | Run time: N/A | Waterproof: Yes | App-compatibility: No | How to charge: N/A

• Why we love it: TK
• What's worth considering: TK
• How to use it: TK

Type: TK | Material: Body-safe silicone | Modes: 3 vibration settings | Battery: 2 x AAA batteries | Run time: N/A | Waterproof: No | App-compatibility: No | How to charge: N/A

• Why we love it: TK
• What's worth considering: TK
• How to use it: TK

Type: G-spot | Material: Medical-grade stainless steel | Modes: N/A | Battery: N/A | Run time: N/A | Waterproof: No | App-compatibility: No | How to charge: N/A

• Why we love it: TK
• What's worth considering: TK
• How to use it: TK

Type: G-spot | Material: Body-safe silicone | Modes: 3 interchangeable O-rings | Battery: N/A | Run time: N/A | Waterproof: Yes | App-compatibility: No | How to charge: N/A

• Why we love it: TK
• What's worth considering: TK
• How to use it: TK

Type: TK | Material: Soft microfibre | Modes: 27-degree angle | Battery: N/A | Run time: N/A | Waterproof: Yes | App-compatibility: No | How to charge: N/A

• Why we love it: TK
• What's worth considering: TK
• How to use it: TK